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The first day of daycare can bring mixed emotions for parents and young children. The excitement of a new environment and friends could be at odds with nerves and even some separation anxiety.
With the right preparation, both parents and children can start this new chapter with greater confidence. Here are a few preparation tips that can help.
Forge a connection with caregivers before the first day
Your child’s caregivers will become an important presence in their lives, so take some time to go meet them. Building a relationship may help you feel involved in your child’s life and confident about your decision.
Caregivers are usually happy to talk to parents, and they can provide valuable advice or daily updates on your child’s progress. Feel free to ask questions and share concerns you may have about your child or daycare in general. It’s also a good idea to introduce your kids to their caregivers before the first day. Two or three meetings may be enough to build trust and get your child excited about daycare.
Tell your child what to expect
Toddlers and older children may benefit from a conversation about what’s in store for them. A day or two prior to their first day, go over the daycare activity schedule and describe each activity in detail. You can use this time to playact or “practice” games, activities and nap time.
You can also remind your child of any friends they may already have at their Hoboken daycare or of a caregiver they’ve met. Babies may not need a detailed conversation, but they can benefit from meeting and spending time with their caregivers before the first day.
Mentally prepare for your first drop-off and pick-up
A short goodbye routine involving a secret handshake, a song, or poem can make drop-offs something children look forward to. Small activities like these help your child emotionally prepare for daycare and can smooth out any anxiety.
While many parents anticipate difficulties with drop-offs, some are surprised to discover that pick-ups can be equally stressful. This isn’t because your child doesn’t want to go home but because they’re not used to these new activities. A small routine that includes saying goodbye to classmates and caregivers can help here, too.
Prepare your child’s belongings together
Involve your child in daycare preparations such as labeling clothes and books, packing their bag, preparing snacks, and choosing a favorite toy. Give them the opportunity to pick out their first-day outfit and a family photo or comforting toy if need be. Helping kids feel in control of the situation in these small ways can help relieve their anxiety and make them feel safe at their daycare in NYC.